November 24, 2016

Helps You To Succeed and Grow

1. Decide you want to bounce back. The power of intention is amazing, and the simple, conscious decision or desire to bounce back will make it far easier for you to do so. When you decide you want to do something and spend a little time visualizing, parts of your subconscious, intuition and conscious mind all start working together towards that goal—it’s the power of positive thinking at work. Even if you have no idea how you will do it, why not start by telling yourself that you’d like to bounce back from this failure? How you speak to yourself is so important.

2. When you fail at something, it isn’t about you. Well, in a way it is, but it isn’t about your core personality, humanity or your soul. It’s much harder to bounce back when you take failure to heart too much and make it about your value as a person. Your importance to those who love you does not change when you fail; your potential to make a difference in the lives of those around you does not change. If anything, your potential increases with every failure experience you have, since the most painful events in life often give us the most valuable experiences and dramatic growth. Experiencing failure makes us more compassionate, and that also increases our capacity to make a difference in the world.

How can you make sure you don’t take failure too personally? Remind yourself—literally, tell yourself—that deep down, you are still you. The failure was just a thing that happened, like a hundred other things that have happened to you. Maybe you did some things that didn’t work out, but if you compared notes with every ridiculously successful person out there, you’d find they all have similar stories to tell. Since you survived, you can still thrive!

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November 08, 2016

邂逅悲傷

滑動的指尖,輕柔地撫摸流年的光影,掬捧著夕陽的紅顏。歲月蒸發了悲傷,化成了滿天纏綿溫柔的細雨;悲傷如秋日落花散落地錯落有致,從緊握的手中漏掉的時光,失去了,恍如隔世,再也回到那些錯過的時光,再也找不回那些逝去的美好。——題記

 

生命有多少路口,需要轉多少個彎,只有用一生的時間走過才知道。人生中有許多的分岔路口,或許會有很多美麗的意外,拾起一份意外的憂傷;或許會遇見生命中那抹最濃烈的色彩,投入一顆三世無悔的菩提心。搖曳的街燈,擁擠的人潮,愛情的路口太窄,離別的路口太寬;當我們放棄世界的所有全心全意地投注一生的感情深入深知後,狂潮激浪的愛情卻經不住時間的考驗,逃不過聚散無常的人生世事。

 

每一次當愛靠近,寂寞的深海也想有人作陪,翔飛的海鷗哭了,平靜的海面,多了一份傷感,少了一份快樂。在成長的歲月裏我們都曾被拋棄被辜負被傷害過,每一個人都是在愛情裏奮不顧身被撞得頭破血流的傻瓜;有時候,不夠勇敢,習慣了以幸福的名義抽身離開,習慣了以自由的名義去旅行,卻不知道冷眼旁觀了誰的心傷。

 

在錯的時間遇上對的人是一種心傷,在對的時間裏遇上錯的人是一聲歎息。在對的時間遇上對的人是一生的幸福。

 

一個人,一輩子,誰也不能預知下一秒的未來,我們總要在愛情裏悲傷一陣子,快樂一陣子;聚散無常的人生,誰也不能與知己一路相隨,我們總要在旅途中聚一陣子,散一陣子;無處安放的青春,誰也不能陪誰到世界的終結,我們總要青幼稚一陣子,成熟一陣子。

 

在無人漆黑的街頭只剩下孤孤單單的我,一個人,心碎了,淚幹了,告訴自己不再做悲傷的傀儡;聽自己心底最遙遠最真實的呼喚,邂逅悲傷,讓我的青春開始更自由地呼吸。在泛黃的紙上留下清新雋永的文字與淺時光那一縷淡淡的憂愁。時光夢裏,青春的我們是依然彼此最熟悉最珍貴的倒影。

 

我們都是時光裏的笨小孩,把最庸俗最膚淺的信誓旦旦當作今生無悔的海誓山盟;如果星光不散場,青春的律動也不會戛然而止,因為青春是一場永不會逝去的過往。我們曾一起哼過的旋律,每一個音符都淺唱著我們的回憶;時間的鐘擺走的太快,來不及再重演點點滴滴,擁抱的溫暖早已冷卻;寂寞的海潮聲,淹沒了離別時的黃昏,只留下不舍的體溫;冰冷的月光下,擁抱著快調零的溫存,愛情只能在回憶得到完整。

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